About Me

DO NOT APPROACH UNTIL YOU'VE READ THE FOLLOWING COMPLETELY. IF YOU CAN'T MAKE THE EFFORT TO KNOW ME,  I AM NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. AND I WILL QUIZ YOU.

I am NOT like the so-called "Dommes" you find on social media. I am NOT new to this game nor am I trolling social media sites in search of my next "mark." If you do see Me commenting, it's because I get My kicks by watching. The above photo is not me. It is an AI-generated photo for your need to put a "face-to-a-name" (I am a redhead). I use a false image not because I am unattractive but because I have a lot to lose. Like you.

I am an over-40 lifestyle Domme with a college education and a small business. I am 100% sober and drug-free, highly intelligent, happily single and childless, and I do NOT fraternize with shady types who engage in substance use of any kind. My two subs, who are both highly successful businessmen,  keep Me happily busy, as does My business and My free lifestyle. I do NOT Domme for the money. I do it because I genuinely enjoy using and abusing men who are beneath Me. It's My SPORT and it's how I get My kicks.

Additionally, I do NOT waste My time with subs who want to buy Me coffee. I do NOT waste My time on subs who want to send Me useless trinkets. I buy My own coffee and trinkets. For you to get into My good graces, you must be willing and able to accommodate My desires. With all those things said, I am not like those silly new "Dommes" that demand tribute before speaking. I will decide if you are worthy of My time, and I do not expect you to "tribute" Me until I see fit for you to do so. I am NOT the "Bratty Princess/Goddess" or whatever other disingenuous title they use. You will never hear "f*ck you, pay me" out of My lips. That is because I know that Femdom/Findom is an EXCHANGE, and unlike the new girls on social media who know nothing of what this practice actually is, and expect money for literally nothing, I understand that each practice is a CRAFT that serves to provide My sub with an outlet for his needs as well as My own.

You may proceed.

I'm a former Pro-Domme who left the community to start a small business. After years away, I've grown to miss it. I realized that the exchange of power was far more satisfying for Me than any financial rewards it brought. I am currently exploring the landscape once again, in search of chemistry and connection with the right sub (s).

I am fiercely protective of My privacy and anonymity for many reasons. Like most others in the community, we all have a lot at stake. No person or amount of money is worth a violation of our security or livelihood. Trust is earned. 

During My long tenure as a Mistress, I explored just about every kink there is. In the process, I was able to fine-tune My own. I will only practice the kinks that I enjoy the most, and those are forced feminization, sissification, nursing & enema, mothering, Financial Domination, and feet. While I greatly enjoy giving assignments and punishments, I do not enjoy extreme humiliation or the infliction of real pain. Playful spanking and restraint are wonderful if done properly but true abuse is not My specialty. I am a "Soft Domme," I suppose.

Natalia K.

Final things of note are about My motivations and availability. I am not actively seeking slaves or paysubs. I have two who've been with me for years and they keep Me busy. However, I don't believe in closing Myself off from new relationships and I prefer to remain open to new people and experiences.  If My words resonate with you, then send Me an email. 

Lastly, I am only available for telephone and email communication at this time. If you have earned My trust, I may consider an online, face-to-face conversation and, over time, an in-person meeting.  I think there's a lot to be said for the element of mystery to keep our fantasies alive.